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How to Enjoy a Vibrator



"Sex With Emily" host Emily Morse answers your questions about how to use a vibrator to pleasure yourself. Some vibrators are better than others, and different women like different types of pleasure.



  • Sex and masturbation advice from Emily Morse
  • Host of the podcast Sex With Emily
  • How Do I Use a Vibrator?
    Dear Emily,

    I bought the a Mini Miracle Wand Vibrator and Iím actually questioning myself! Am I doing this right? Itís not working for me.

    Thanks!


    Monica


    Dear Monica,

    Sometimes you have to get to know your vibrator before you can get into the right groove. Starting out with a vibrator is sort of like starting an illustrious affair with a new lover. Things can begin kind of clumsy, but once you discover how each others bodies work the sex becomes better, and hopefully orgasmic.†

    Luckily for you the Hitachi Magic Wand is one of the most powerful vibrators in the world with the sole purpose of making you orgasm (and pampering you with back massages).

    First, make sure that youíre applying the wand to your clitoris. Many if not most vibrators are designed for clitoral stimulation and not for vaginal insertion. I recommend clitoral vibrators for everyoneís first vibrator.

    If youíre not sure where youíre clitoris is located, get a pocket mirror and take a long, overdue look at your vagina. The clitoris is the the little bump above the opening of the vagina, although many women prefer indirect clitoral stimulation.

    The Mini Miracle Wand Vibrator is extremely powerful. Start on the low setting and apply the wand either directly on your clitoris or around it. Play around and find what feels best. Consider switching to a higher setting if you want more oomph. But be careful, the pleasure can be overwhelming and the higher setting might be too much for your body.

    As far as technique goes, some people find that it feels great to rotate the wand in a circular motion. For a gold star, try to maintain the circular motion while you orgasmĖ your hard work will pay off.

    Others find that it feels great to switch between applied pressure and no pressure at all. Press the wand onto your clitoris for a few seconds and then remove it for a few seconds, and repeat until a mind-blowing orgasm happens. †You choose how long and how much pressure to apply.†Vibrators like the Mystic Wand Vibrator (the sexy granddaughter of the Hitachi Magic Wand) serve a similar purpose by offering different pulsation patterns.†

    When the waves of pleasure hit you unexpectedly, itís easy to stop functioning completely. But donít forget to breathe.†Inhale while you apply pressure and exhale when you remove the vibrator from your clitoris, or vice versa. No matter what technique you use with your Unrelenting Miracle Vibrator , focusing on your breath will help you have more intense orgasms.†

    Remember, everyoneís body works differently. The key to vibrators, and sex in general, is finding what works best for you.

    If you find that the Mini Miracle Wand isnít your cup of tea—even though itís a Long Island Iced Tea in my book—there are other vibrators waiting for you.

    If youíre not exactly sure what you want, the talented and knowledgeable people at Vibrators.com will help you out.†

    With a little help you can figure out what you need, whether itís something more aggressive like the Mini Miracle Wand Vibrator†or something more docile and discreet like the Silicone Butterfly Kiss.†After all, vibrators are like lovers—they are all different and sometimes itís more fun when you have lots of them.†

    xxx
    Emily


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